Lessons from a Puppy
Meet
Annabell, aka, Piddles.
Annabell is
an 8 month old Black Lab mix.
Like almost
any puppy, Annabell is extremely lovable, so cute she could make your hear
melt, and very energetic.
AND, like
most puppies, she “piddles” everywhere (hence the nickname).
The problem is, however, her accidents inside the house have not
gotten any better despite weeks of training.
Everyday, there is a new spot on the carpet to clean.
My mom and
stepdad adopted Annabell from a work colleague of my mom’s a few months ago,
saving her from going back to a shelter.
Like many people, I’m assuming her previous owners found out they did
not have the time or energy to care for an energetic puppy.
(I say “save” because the likelihood of adoption decreases when a dog is
brought back to a shelter).
At my mom
and stepdad’s house, Annabell receives all the love and food a dog could need. She even has a doggy friend to look up to, in
their 9 year old Black Lab Savannah (Savannah may act like she doesn’t like Annabell, but
deep down I know she does). It also
helps that my mom is very patient, perhaps a virtue that grew stronger from raising 3
daughters. In other words, my mom can
calmly deal with all the destruction a puppy brings, in addition to all the love
and joy.
So, with
much patience, day after day my mom and stepdad scrub the carpet to clean up
where Annabel has her accidents. And,
day after day, they wash the towel left in Annabell's crate where she stays while
they are at work. It has now become part of the routine.
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If you are a
dog owner, you know the last two sentences shouldn’t make sense. Dogs never soil their own area, unless left alone
for long periods of time (which Annabell is not). Actually, Annabel can’t seem to hold it for
more than an hour or two. At the same
time, my mom and stepdad can’t seem to keep her away from the water bowl either.
Knowing
something wasn’t quite right, they took Annabel to the vet and described her
symptoms. Soon after, she was scheduled
for tests.
The results weren’t
good. They found out Annabell has renal dysplasia, meaning she has an abnormal
kidney formation. The doctor told them
she has 6 months to 1 year to live. Besides
feed here a special diet to slow the progression of the disease, there is
nothing they can do…
Except love her.
Below is a
video of 8 month old Annabell. As you
can see, she seems like any other puppy: living life full speed ahead, always awaiting
what’s next, and always eager for love.
(*I apologize for the poor quality! **Annabell is 8 months old!)
In fact, you
would never know Annabell was sick. In
truth, she probably doesn’t either. But
what difference does that make?
My mom and
stepdad treat Annabell like any other puppy because she IS like any other
puppy. They don’t act sad or depressed
around her because she is not sad or depressed.
They give her love and she exudes love. *
On the other
hand, how many humans do you know that when the slightest conflict or illness
arises, it’s like the end of the world?
We let the tiniest of things get to us and bring us down. We sulk, we moan, we complain. And that leads us too? Yes, more sulking, moaning, and complaining.
But what if
we were like Annabell? What if, the next
time some problem arose in our lives, we continued on as normal? What if we
smiled, laughed, and lived adventurously, just the same?
What
difference would that make?
(* I
honestly believe a Higher Power put Annabell into the loving arms of my mom and
stepdad. With them, she is provided with
a safe and loving home. Not only are my
mom and stepdad lucky to have Annabell, but she is lucky to have them.)
***Annabell received her wings on January 25, 2014
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